Thursday, May 10, 2018

From Chaos to Success

From Chaos to Success

By Stephanie E. Wilson-Coleman
Author of Be Sure You Dance:  Life’s lessons to make every moment count,
Embracing Life’s Lessons and Is Anybody Listening?  ·

     It seems that we have all been experiencing constant change at some level in our lives for years and as a result, we are running around frantically searching for the cause.  We view these changes as chaotic because we believe that we are fervently seeking success.  But the pseudo-success we seek is a form of stagnation.   Because we doubt our power, we want our lives to stand quietly by and give its’ permission for us to overdose on consumerism, reality television, social media and anything else that will suppress the desires of our heart.  But no matter how hard we try to ignore our power, our inner voice will keep knocking on our hearts until we answer, even if the only reason we answer is to end the chaos. 

     We were each created with more power than we will ever fully be able to understand.  Recent research in Quantum Physics has demonstrated that everything is energy and everything is interconnected to the seen and unseen.  Our thoughts create, our bodies are filled with healing power, and we are in the driver’s seat.   Are you ready to blast off toward your dreams and create the “super bowl” in your life?  If the answer is yes, here are a few pointers for your navigation system:
   1)      Heal your addiction to gossip & idle conversations – Some research suggests that we spend approximately 5 hours a day, 25 hours a week gossiping or participating in idle conversation and activities.  That is 25 hours a week that we are not working toward our goals.  Active involvement in this type of activity will keep you from being successful.    Instead, start to keep your mind on your dreams, and your dreams on your mind.  
2)     Learn to dance with your anger – We are never angry for the reasons we think; too often we read too much into situations, and we are constantly adding our stuff.   Emotions, feelings are road signs in our lives.  When you are experiencing anger, ask “why I am taking this personally?  Is there any truth to what was said?  What is this feeling revealing about me?  Have I felt this way before?”  Tracing these feelings back to the first time you felt this emotion will identify the issue that needs to be forgiven.  This step is critical.   Anger keeps your mind blocked and interferes with your ability to attract success, including money.     
3)     Expand your imagination - Instead of using your imagination to create trials, tribulations, and, drama, keep your focus on possibilities and not obstacles.  Allowing your mind to dwell on negative thoughts and images will rob you of any possibilities that are the horizon.  You can only achieve what you can perceive.       
These changes will allow you to create the best in life and develop your “greatness”.  The ball is in your court. 
 Let the God Times Roll.
Remember, life is too short to drink cheap champagne.
Dream Big!  Live the life you’ve imagined. 
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Tuesday, May 1, 2018

A Mother's Memory

A Mothers Memory

By Stephanie E. Wilson-Coleman
Author of Be Sure You Dance:  Life’s lessons to make every moment count,
Embracing Life’s Lessons and Is Anybody Listening?  ·

     It’s time for the annual interrogation, and no matter what I do or say, I am unable to escape the constant questioning. As a mother, for the last 30 days, my family has continually asked “what do you want for Mother’s Day?, Where do you want to go for dinner? I am certain this ritual occurs in the lives of all Mothers.  I remember doing the same thing with my mother. 
     Most of us will approach this month trying to decide what can we do to show our mothers how much we love them; some will spend this month mourning the loss of their mothers, and some will feel disconnected because they do not have a physical presence of a mother.  But no matter where you stand, the Infinite All Knowing Presence of Spirit has made certain we would always have examples of mothers in which to turn.    
     According to the revealing word, Mothers represent the manifestation of spiritual ideas.  Mother’s teach us that the secret to success is actually not a secret at all.  If you do what comes naturally to you, if you do what you love, you will have all the success, joy, love you desire. 
     One of the important lessons I learned was to use the power of choice wisely and watch where I place my focus.  It was my mother and the many others who served as surrogate mothers  -my aunts, sisters - in my life that reminded me to stay focused on the good things in my life and no matter what never doubt my ability to succeed. 

     My Mother and the other mothers in my life also taught me never to give up.   Encouraged to keep working toward achieving my goals I can only hope that this added more joy to my Mothers’ memories. 
     Our Mother’s memories are filled with images of our successes and failures; over comings and frustrations. Their stories are colorful reminders of all that is good, and of all the kindness we possess and leave in this world.
  . Mothers give us an awareness that we have something to offer the world.  No matter what we may have heard, no matter what we’ve experienced, no matter our race, our income, or any other arbitrary factor, we were golden in our Mother’s eyes, we are golden in the eyes of Spirit.
     So when celebrating the Mother’s in our lives, give a memorable gift,  gift that will live in their hearts forever. 

Dream Big, Live the life you’ve imagined.
Life is too short to drink cheap champagne.
Join me at the Ignite Your Inner Millionaire Conference, September 7-8, 2018.  Register at

Stephanie, a Success Mindset Mentor, has the uncanny ability to help others transform their emotional and mental obstacles into stepping stones to living their dreams.  She has an insatiable appetite for helping others achieve the impossible.  She works with others to recognize, uncover and reconcile painful feelings, hidden secrets and memories that are affecting their financial health and the health of their families. She lives her inspiration as the founder of The Champagne Connection, Inc., the author of 3 books and the Host of the television show "A Sip of Inspiration,” and
She is also a regular contributor to The MetaMonthly Magazine, Champagne and Beyond Magazine,