Changing Your Focus
By
Stephanie E. Wilson-Coleman
Author of Be Sure You Dance: Life’s lessons to make every moment count,
Embracing Life’s Lessons and Is Anybody Listening?
www.champagneconnection.com • www.asipofinspiration.com
Email: nspire@champagneconnection.com
Lately, television and newspapers have been saturated with so much
sadness. Stories of people making their
transition before they have had a chance
to live; tales of wonderful people bought to their knees by illness; recent
events involving hard-working couples’ falling prey to mortgage foreclosures
are running rampant throughout our
society. These are the events that have
hypnotized us into believing that we are victims, unwilling partners in a game
headed for destruction. Feeling
powerless, we keep telling “stories” of lack, impending doom, and financial destruction and if we are not the ones telling
the stories, we certainly are intently listening to them and willingly passing
them on. We unknowingly weaken our
beliefs, our consciousness every time we participate, actively or passively, in
these kinds of conversations. Beliefs
are just a set of opinions that we regard as factual. Our “facts” or beliefs about escalating
prices, economic disasters and impending illness are the key that activates the
various laws of cause and effect. We
must learn to change our focus and tell different stories. I often say our conversations, our thoughts
must mostly consist of what is right with our lives and less of what is
wrong. If you are finding this difficult
to achieve, then you must look at what you believe. If you are always sick, every supervisor you
have had treats you unfairly and you are constantly robbing Peter to pay Paul,
then your life is speaking volumes about what you believe. It is time for you to focus your attention on your negative parent thoughts and eliminate
them; not gradually, but with deliberate and purposeful intention.
In order to live the life we were created to live, we must start to tell
different stories, have different conversations. We all have the same amount of time, how we
utilize our time determines our success.
The difference between people living their best lives now and people,
who are not, is consciousness. Because
we do not have any time to squander, start right not to think about something
that made you feel good. When you awaken
every morning, think of something that happened the day before that made you
feel good. Before you fall asleep at
night, always think of something that happened during the day that made you
feel good. As you begin to focus on good
things, you will attract more good things, thereby, giving you material for
telling better stories.
Remember,
life is too short to drink cheap champagne.
Dream Big! Life the life you have imagined.
"Do not go gentle into that good
night, find a hill worth dying for and take it &
Be the person you're waiting for. Make
today so awesome, that yesterday gets jealous
and above all else do it Your way."
Stephanie, a Success
Mindset Mentor & Transformational Specialist, has the uncanny ability to
help others break through toxic emotions and heal the residue left from
traumatic experiences that are causing them to sabotage their success. She
works with others to recognize, uncover and reconcile painful feelings, hidden
secrets and memories that are affecting their financial health and the health
of their families.
Stephanie has an
insatiable appetite for helping others achieve the impossible. She lives her
inspiration as the founder of The Champagne Connection, Inc.,
www.champagneconnection.com, the author of 3 books and the Host of the
television show "A Sip of Inspiration", www.asipofinspiration.
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